Sooo…   Just over a year after the first blog post when it was created and I’m already getting to my second.  Moving right along, I’d say!  Everything changes, some things for the better, some not so much.  One of the big things that has changed is that I have truly accepted the fact that I will never again carry another baby.  It hurts my heart but I spent a lot of time in prayer about it and while I don’t like it, I think I have made my peace with it.  I’m still more than willing to adopt if the opportunity presented itself but it’s so overwhelming just thinking about finding a little one to be ours….

The biggest reason I started this blog (15 months ago!) was because I had decided I was going to start the Weight Watchers thing and so far the only thing new about my Whole New World is that I’m actually heavier.  I will say there are easy things I can identify that are, first and foremost, we started eating out a LOT!  Like, more out than at home.  Up until December of this year, I was working nights and I felt like I was on fast forward all of the time, like I was in a tailspin that I was never able to fully recover from.  It sounds ridiculous, actually, I did have “4 days off” but the truth was that while I was off on Thursdays, I did work until 7am on Thursday so I slept half of the day.  I did have Friday and the weekend but I was so drained all of the time I never felt like I caught up.  Another challenge I know I had was that I was not getting any help with any of the housework, everything fell to me with a few small exceptions like trash and some of the laundry responsibility.  It felt like no one really gave a damn, they were just more concerned with doing their thing and the fact that I was drowning didn’t really matter.  So, I’m no longer working at night which is nice but I do hate the fact that I am again working 5 days a week ‘til 5.  It really makes my evenings so short but the other side of that coin is that It’s really forced me to evaluate whether I’m willing to give up my evening to eat out, and for the most part, that answer is no.  Truthfully, I do enjoy cooking it was just difficult because my kitchen was always such a mess and I couldn’t do both but I am in the process of making changes to help that.  One big milestone for me is that I made several things for Easter Dinner this last week and was able to keep on top of it so I’m really trying to use that as a jumping off place. 

Something else I think has been working against me is that I tend to “collect” things.  Yes, it’s true that some may say “hoard” but that sounds harsh.   I’m really trying so hard to evaluate what I truly need and will realistically use and get rid of the rest.  Also trying to organize things so everything has a home, I think it’s slowing down the works but I really feel like it’s going to help me maintain the changes I’m hoping to make.  If I can keep my kitchen clean and workable, I should be able to make a better go of the Weight Watchers.